Sari Botton: The Pressure to Age Well

 

“People do feel pressured to age well, but that means different things to different people.”

🎧 33 min | Episode 11 | May 16, 2024

Sari Botton
The Pressure to Age Well

Many people believe that life improves with age: You're wiser, you let go a little, and you enjoy life more. But our culture's spin on the loss of youth can be prickly, often challenging these convictions and stirring up debate.

Author Sari Botton sits at the heart of this conversation. Sari is the publisher of Oldster Magazine, a popular publication on Substack that explores what it means and feels like to move through different phases of life. Her weekly Q&A interviews have drawn a vibrant and vocal community of writers and readers who opine on issues ranging from visibility to sexuality. Nothing's off limits.

“It's been a lifelong fascination for me,” says Sari, about aging. And she's not alone. Spend five minutes in the magazine's comments section, and it's like being welcomed to a lively dinner party where every guest lives life to the fullest.

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Transcript

(Edited slightly for clarity)

Melissa Ceria: Sari Botton, welcome.

Melissa Ceria: Sari, on your magazine's homepage, there's an article titled "Who Qualifies as an Oldster?" which seems like a great starting point for our discussion. Listeners might be curious if they're the right audience for this topic.

Sari Botton: Well, everyone in my mind is an oldster because I'm using that term in a subversive, pejorative way. I'm taking a word that had been something of a slur, and spinning it around and asking the question of why, you know, what does it mean to be an oldster? And for me, it means everyone is the oldest they've ever been, and it's a big deal to them. The numbers associated with their chronology freak them out, whether they're 18 or 98. And so I want to know about everybody's experience of passing through time in a human body and getting older.


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